Musings from the Motherland

I was born in Ahmedabad, India. Left at the age of five. Grew up and was educated in Chicago and live in the Bay Area, California, U.S.A. Currently spending one year in Mumbai, India with my husband and 2 young girls. These are musings on my return to my motherland, India.

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Wednesday, July 12, 2006

7/12

7/11 is a date that will go down in history for Indians. But like 9/11 for Americans, 3/11 for Spaniards, and 7/7 for the English these are shameful dates that are marks of ignominy and loss of innocence. Yesterday was July 11, 2006. It was on this date that 8 bomb blasts shook Mumbai, the financial capital of India and a city of over 12 million inhabitants within the span of 11 minutes. It is difficult to believe that such evil minds exist that could conceive and execute such destruction and mayhem, painstakingly selecting rush hour and choosing the heavily traveled Western Railway (6 million passengers a day) to wreak their havoc on innocent, unsuspecting lives returning to their homes after a hard day’s work. But after the destruction of the World Trade Center in New York City and serial bomb blasts on Madrid and London subways, we know such evil exists.

July 11, 2006

6:45 pm – I turn on the television flipping past one of the Indian news channels. I stop suddenly…I caught the words “bomb blast” and “Khar station”. I live in Khar. I sucked in my breath. Apparently a bomb had ripped through one of the first class compartments of a train at Khar station at 6:25pm.

As I watch in horror, I hear that there have actually been three blasts and the word “terrorist” is added to the list of words flashing past on the news ticker under, “Breaking News.” I immediately try to call my husband Bob using my cell phone. I see the words “Network Busy” and rush to the landline. I can’t seem to make a call out. I am trying to decide what to do when I think about my trusty laptop. The Internet. “Please let broadband be up today,” I mutter. Just as I am about to Skype I get an SMS on my mobile phone from Bob. It succintly says it all “bomb bl.” Looks like SMS is working even if voice is not. I find out that Bob is still at work and okay. I try to call my sister-in-law who also lives with her family in Mumbai to find out whether she is alright. Can’t get through to either her landline or mobile phone. I connect to the internet and Skype my brother in San Francisco to tell him that we are okay and ask him to let my parents and his wife in Chicago know. I also ask my brother to try my sister-in-law in Mumbai’s number in case he has better luck calling internationally. He too can’t seem to get through. I SMS my sister-in-law. No response back. And I didn’t get a "message undeliverable" error. That is worrisome.

7:15 pm - I rush to the TV and find out that the number of blasts has increased to 5 and then 7 and then 8 (apparently 2 at one station).

Biya, our maid had left our flat, in Khar, at 6:15pm to catch her train back to Thane. Now that it was 7:15 pm I was getting worried. Sandrine interrupted me, “Mumma I’m scared.” Between running back and forth to the TV, my laptop, the landline and the mobile phone, I had neglected to let her now what was going on. At 4 years old she was very perceptive and so I told her that there was a problem with the train lines that Biya took. “So, is she coming back?” Sandrine inquired innocently. I didn’t answer. In my mind I thought she would have already come back since she normally takes a 6:40 pm train. I started panicking. “What if she had reached early and taken an earlier train?” My almost 1.5 year old was obliviously mouthing her sister’s kitchen toys. “Let me try to call Biya,” I said looking at Sandrine. Thinking that her son and daughter in Thane may have heard from her, I tried alternatively calling Biya’s home, my sister-in-law’s mobile and landline. Couldn’t get through to anyone. On one of these ongoing attempts I managed to get through to Biya’s home. A deep male voice answered, “Hello.” I quickly explained who I was and asked “Are you Biya’s son? Has Biya come home? Have you heard from her?” He said, “No, she is not home yet.” I paused and then proceeded, “There were some problems on the trains…bomb blasts…one of them was a Khar station….has she called?” I could hear the sucking in of his breath, “I didn’t know…let me check.” I hung up.

8:00 pm – My in-laws call to find out if I have heard from my sister-in-law.

They, like my husband, his brother, and myself, haven’t been able to get through to her. I tell them that she sent me an SMS at 4:58 pm saying that she’ll be off the train in 15 minutes so I assumed that she must be at home, after picking up her son from school. My mother-in-law tells me that my nephew didn’t go to school today. I start getting concerned, “Then what was she doing on the train at that time?” Later after Skyping with my husband I find out that she did change her mind and take my nephew to school after all. In that case, she must have gotten off at 5:15 pm per the SMS she sent. At this point her phone is ringing but no on is answering. I am getting more worried.

8:15 pm – My husband Skypes me that most likely he won’t be able to start back until after midnight. It is safer to stay where he is till the commotion dies down. Apparently our driver Roshan is stuck in traffic on his way to picking up my husband who is in Lower Parel. Roshan left our Khar flat at 6:15 pm.

8:45 pm – I am Skyping with my brother when my landline rings! It must be working again. I grab the receiver and bellow, “Hello.” “Ma’am…” the voice begins. “Biya,” I shout “Are you okay? Where are you?” “Is it okay if I come back,” she asks. “You should have come back 2 hours ago,” I scold. She laughs nervously. Sandrine chirps, “Is Biya coming?” Nikhitita begins her walk to the door chanting, “Biya…Biya…Biya.”

Still no word from my sister-in-law. The images on the news are very graphic now as they show good samaritans helping bloodied people. Particularly stark is the image of a well-dressed man laying on the ground with his laptop bag still hanging around his right shoulder. His legs are twisted in an unnatural position. He is clearly dead. I ban the kids from the TV room.

9:00 pm – I see the doorbell ring and see Biya through the peephole.

“Are you and Papa going out tonight while Biya stays with us?” asked Sandrine. “Not tonight,” I reply, “Biya is staying with us but we aren’t going out. Papa will be home very late.” We SMS Biya’s family that she is okay since their phones are still not working properly.

Biya told me how she had arrived at the station early for her 6:40 train and had been buying fruit to take home. As she was buying fruit she had heard the blast. She told me how she looked away as bloodied people were being taken away. She relayed how she and other stranded passengers like her were offered Bisleri water, biscuits and vada pav without any expectation of renumeration. Mumbai was recently cited as the rudest city in the world. True, Mumbaikers might not stop for someone dropping a piece of paper in the street but maybe it’s okay because 7/11 showed us that they can step up when someone is really in need.

As the newspapers would report the next day, emergency response was poor; it was civilians who were carrying the wounded and maimed to any private vehicle or taxi for transport to hospitals. The papers also reported that one of the first to the scene to provide aid to injured were slumdwellers who lived on the sides of the railway tracks. Caste knew no bar as slumdwellers held out their hands to first class passengers, not for a handout but to offer them help.

The landline rings again. It is Biya’s neighbor’s daughter who is stuck in Malad after work and has no place to go. I tell Biya that if she can somehow make her way to Khar she can stay with us.

9:15 pm – Roshan, our driver has finally reached Bob’s work three hours after he started from Khar. It should only take 45 minutes to an hour.

9:30 pm – During one of my numerous tries to get through to my sister-in-law I get a busy signal on her landline. She must be home!! I call her mobile phone. “Hello,” I hear her familiar voice. “You’re okay? We’ve been trying to get a hold of you.” She sheepishly replies, “We’ve been in a movie. We had no idea all this was going on!” “Whew!” I sigh in relief.

10:00 pm – Biya’s neighbor’s daughter come in. She apparently took the long trip by autorickshaw.

I spent the rest of the evening putting Nikhitita and Sandrine to bed and waiting for my husband to come home while responding to e-mail inquiries from friends and family in the U.S., Skype Chatting with Bob, and Google Chatting with my cousin in Bergen, Norway. What would we have done without the internet!!

12:36 am – Bob walks in though the door. I had been restless till then. I SMS Bob’s sister, “Bob’s back” and e-mail the same news to family in the U.S.

We sit down to talk about the events of the last six hours. Bob told me about how Roshan, our driver actually heard one of the blasts go off. He also told me that there were so many people stranded on the streets with nowhere to go that cars that were not full were being told to take random passengers with them. As we looked at our kids before we went to sleep and passed by the room where Biya and her neighbor’s daughter were sleeping that night we realized how fortunate we are.

What I presented above is simply my account of how the events of 7/11 immediately impacted me. Fortunately, I nor my family, were anywhere near any of the stations that suffered bomb blasts. My thoughts and prayers are with those who were directly impacted as well as their loved ones. But what I recounted above does reflect how such acts of terror impact everyone in some way, but perhaps with different levels of intensity. Those at the site are most directly affected and then those nearby and then those in the same city and then those in the same country and then everyone across the world. But I suppose that is the power of terror. It permeates the “it could be me next time feeling.”

But the way that Mumbaikers reacted on 7/12 shows that the power of people is stronger than the power of terror. The pulse of the city (and most of India) beats on the railway tracks. But these terrorists must have hit a vein not an artery because the very next day after 8 bomb blasts rocked Mumbai, students reported to schools, professional workers made it to their offices, and vendors manned their storefronts, stalls, and carts. Trains were slowly brought back up and running. And although not filled to capacity, people rode the trains. Less than 24 hours after missing a bomb blast by one hour, my sister-in-law and brother-in-law took my nephew to school by train. His school was not closed, and they were not afraid. Biya put in a full day of work and she and her neighbor's daughter left to catch their train. They also were not afraid. Neither are most Mumbaikers.

4 Comments:

  • At 9:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi: This is shailesh and kalpna -- glad to know you all are OK -- please be careful -- all the best

     
  • At 8:14 PM, Blogger Danakka said…

    Sajeev23 - I feel like the focus is always the day after an event like this (in this case 7/12) which is why I titled it that, and whether people decide to let fear overrun their lives or whether, as you said, they are courageous. 7/11 itself is rather a shameful date. Yes, perhaps you are right and people just learn to put their fear behind them rather than being fearless.

     
  • At 1:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    This is Uma. We were also worried about you and are glad to know that you all are safe.

     
  • At 10:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am SO glad and relieved to hear that you and the family are ok. I am ashamed to say but I had no idea how bad things were or that it had happened until you sent the email because I rarely watch the news let alone TV in general but in reading this I thank my lucky stars that you and my extended family are ok. My wishes and toughts are with you and the ones around you. I will pray for the families that were effected and I will pray for it all to stop. I love you and I miss you. Please keep in touch!!!
    Love always, Melissa Koshy

     

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